How To Deal With Premature Ejaculation

Posted by Debbie305 on December 26, 2015
Help For Premature Ejeculation


a lot of people notice that as they age, it’s of great importance for them to maintain a lively sex life. Lovemaking is a enjoyable piece of their lifestyle and not one they want to lose. It’s normal for a person’s sex drive to lessen some whilst they age. How to last longer in bed for men naturally should never become an issue. Exclusively all those over 60 may find it is harder to become aroused or even to get your body to physically act in accordance with what you want to do.

There are in reality some little things you can do that will help you to preserve your sex drive as you age. Maintaining a nourishing way of life will give rise to a vastly significant impact for you so do not take it lightly. the decisions you craft now is going to have an effect on your health along with your degree of desire for sex while you get older.

Eating a healthy balanced meal is something you should make a part of your life. If you are doing it now, then start to make a few small shifts. As time goes on you will adjust to these changes and they will become second nature to you. Drinking a lot of caffeinated drinks could be a problem. If you aren’t receiving all of the vitamin supplements plus nutritional value that you need from food, be sure to take a quality supplement.

Be sure to make the occasion for exercise at least 30 minutes each day also. Walking is vastly prevalent for older individuals as it is low impact but very good for the body. Get a companion, a friend for instance, or even a dog that you can walk with each day. Several shopping malls and several other areas contain covered places to walk too which are perfect when it’s wintry outside.
How To Deal With Premature Ejaculation
Premature Ejaculation is a problem most people face at some point. If you want practical suggestions, join Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.

Cathy: Hi, everyone. Have you ever wondered… I’m sorry I’m messing this up, I don’t know how to start this.

Reid: You messed up prematurely?

Cathy: I prematurely messed it up.

Reid: Guess what this one is about. Premature ejaculation.

Cathy: We’ve had several people email and asking for help with this, how do you deal with it.

Reid: I’m Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.

Cathy: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com

Reid: And we never mess up the beginning of these videos.

Cathy: Never.

Reid: So first off, we’re being silly because we know this is a really charged subject for a lot of people.

Cathy: For both men and women.

Reid: Men and women. So, you know, please don’t mistake our levity and sense of jackass-ery that we don’t think this is important. It’s totally important and at the same time like getting more freaked out and frustrated about it is probably what’s not going to help.

Cathy: Yeah.

Reid: So at some point as human beings, we all need to start embracing our foibles and that sex is kind of awkward and doesn’t always go well.

Cathy: Our bodies don’t always obey.

Reid: Yeah. So that being said, take a deep breath. There are lots of courses out there online and whatnot that you can take that will help you work through things around premature ejaculation. My basic advice for folks, for men is that a lot of us have grown up practicing self-pleasuring and masturbation.

Cathy: We try to hurry.

Reid: Yeah, we try to hurry because like we’re — you know, maybe you grew up in a family who had a bunch of people and like you only had the bathroom for five minutes, like it was the only alone time you had. Or you know you’re in the middle of doing a bunch of stressful work stuff and you just want to change your body chemistry and so you go and you jack off and this goes for women too. So one thing to look at is if you’re somebody struggling with premature ejaculation, do you actually masturbate like zero to sixty and try to get it done with as quickly as possible? That might be part of what’s happening is you’ve conditioned your body to get excited and to go as fast as it can. One of the things that you can do is practice masturbating —

Cathy: Slower.

Reid: — in a whole different way. Like explore your body, pay attention to how your arousal state changes, and like get a little bit more self-awareness like almost like if you were a hang glider. Like you’re trying to soar and like kind of cruise those erotic thermals rather than like a bow and arrow…

Cathy: [Laughs]

Reid: The next thing you can do around exploring issues of premature ejaculation is understand this kind of concept called what I like to call erotic momentum. Like if you’re pleasuring yourself or with a partner and your arousal is kind of like at a 5 and then at a 6 and then you keep going and you say woo, woo, woo, it’s like at a 7 or an 8. You know, like oh my goodness we’re at a 9 and 10 is the wine barrel goes over the side of Niagara Falls and there’s no coming back. If that’s a 10, there’s a big difference between me having sex with somebody and going or masturbating and going 5, 6, 7, 8 ½, 9 versus 5, 6, 7, 8, 9. It’s been my experience personally when I am excited and I go from like 5 to 9 really quickly, it’s hard for me to pull back. Like I have no braking distance. It’s like I’m driving too close to the car in front of me if you know what I mean.

Cathy: Yeah.

Reid: And then they put on the red lights and I’m like bang. So this idea of like understanding erotic momentum and kind of like your braking distance, getting a sense of what your braking distance is.

Cathy: And you can play with going from 5 to 7 to 5 to 8.

Reid: Yeah.

Cathy: Like you just play from going up and down.

Reid: The other things you can explore and think about is the kinds of sexual positions for you. There might be some sexual positions that create less stimulation still feels good. I mean if anybody wants to have sex with me, I’m winning. But the idea of positions that might create less sensation for you that brings you to orgasm. Because there’s lots of other sensations that feel really great that aren’t quite bringing me to ejaculate.

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