What Won’t Work for Curing Premature Ejaculation
“What Won’t Work for Curing Premature Ejaculation”
Hi, Dr Janet Hall here, clinical psychologist and sex therapist and the author of this book, “Sex, Life Solutions”, and 19 CDs in the “Sensational Sex” series. So, in this series of clips I’m talking about premature ejaculation and now I’d like to tell you about the things that don’t work. You know, men are very simple thinkers sometimes, they look for the magic wand and they try all sorts of things to stop from cumming too quickly. For instance, some of them try to save it up, they think that if they haven’t had an ejaculation for a long time, that when they get with a girl, they will be able to last. Well, it’s actually the opposite, the more that you masturbate, the more that you ejaculate, the more chance you’ll learn how to hold it back, so don’t save it up. There’s all sorts of snake charm remedies out there and please watch out for that, you know, this, this miracle drug that you can, you can sniff or a nasal spray is really an anti-depressant and what it’s going to do is perhaps slow down the ejaculation a little bit, but it’ll also slow you down majorly. It’s a little bit like killing a fly with a cannon. So you’re much better off to try to learn to control the brain which, after all, is your most important sex organ. Now, some chaps have also tried to get the Viagra or an injection into their penis, so that they’ll have an erection which lasts, they may ejaculate but then they’ll still have an erection so they’ll be able to continue to have sex. Now, on the one hand, I guess, that your partner’s not going to get really, really angry with you when you cum too quickly but once again, your brain isn’t learning how to control the paranoia, the anxiety, the performance frustration which is probably exacerbating and making it all worse. I guess there’s one way to help out with not having an ejaculation and that was in that really funny movie “There’s something about Mary”, when he ejaculated just before Mary was coming for his date, and you might remember that sort of, messy scene. Well apparently that, that is quite a good trick so if you’re desperate, you might like to do that. Now what do the Mary’s think? I used to say to guys, don’t worry if our lady is disappointed in you because she’ll be patient and she’ll encourage you. Well, you know what, these Cosmos and Cleos and just the feistiness of younger women, more and more I’m finding out if a guy doesn’t perform well, the girl’s just as likely to dump him and I was working with one chap whose wife basically said ‘nup, it’s a deal breaker’. I’ve been asking him for five years to go to see a psychologist or a sex therapist and he wouldn’t do it. Said, ‘I wouldn’t care what happened now, it’s over.’ So please guys, see a sex therapist, read a book, get the information, do the right thing because knowledge is power. There’s no magic wand.
This free video on premature ejackulation might hold the answers to the issues that haunt you. Questions and issues are all covered in this video, one way or another. It is presented by a man who suffered from PE and found a way to get over it. In light of that, there must be some value in it.
Premature ejeculation is not something any man should take lightly as it could mean the difference between having a relationship and spending many lonely nights alone. Why do I say that? Well, the experts believe that some men find it so embarrassing that they shy away from relationships. These men seem to think that there is nothing they can do about it. – this is a treatable condition!
The truth is, regardless of the question, problem or issue – pre mature ejculation – there is a way to last longer in bed and please the woman you’re with. If you’ve tried everything else and are now at your wits end, don’t despair. Again, this is a treatable situation and if addresses properly, can have any many up and functioning in a fairly reasonable time.
Do you have a few minutes to watch a video? It could change your sex life and in thirty days or less, you could find yourself going for thirty minutes or more!